Chris Rea, from Jools Denby about being on TotP with New Model Army (my edits);
successful as it was for the band, it was an exhausting and horrible day. the utter contempt and distain shown me by the BBC who obviously considered me, as so many conservative men did and still do view Alternative women, as a repugnant freak, all got a bit much. I left the dressing room and sat in the floor outside in the corridor silently crying and trying not to smudge my eye makeup. As I sat huffing and sniffling a man approached, speaking with a strong Geordie accent, asking me with genuine concern if I was alright. I found my voice and replied in a rather wobbly tone I was, but it was just all a bit much and not what I’d dreamed it would be. Ah, he said, yeah, I get that, but remember, you’re the artiste, you have the power, they can never force you to play and they need you – chin up, give ‘em Hell, eh?”
He was so kind, so thoughtful and his voice, husky and low, was so beautiful and reassuring after all that had happened. Most men within the music industry were awful to me but here was a thoroughly decent, compassionate man taking time to reassure a stranger, and a stranger most men regarded as trash. I have never, ever forgotten the simple, genuine kindness Chris Rea showed me on that day and it has remained in my heart as a treasured memory ever since. RIP.
Thanks for sharing that Shane. There are good people about.